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prioritizing your life, notes from a waiting room


This past year my life has been in a constant state of transformation. Sometimes easy, other times painful. I have been struggling to live and thrive in two very different worlds: Corporate America, and Healing. For months I’ve been asking the universe for clarity. Where should I focus my energy? How do I start a business? What is the most effective way to network?

Then I received an unexpected answer: All you have is your health, and timing is everything.

The universe can reset your life in an instant. In my case, it was a phone call. I was stunned to receive a message from my doctor on Monday morning, asking me to return for additional scans. My only priority from that moment on was getting an appointment at the imaging center. I dropped everything and headed uptown.

Sitting in the waiting room, in my ill-fitting beige gown, I wasn’t worried about work, my social responsibilities, or to-do lists. My primary focus was my health. It was ironic to be staring out through an enormous window at a beautiful view of the Hudson River on a warm, sunny, clear day, surrounded by women who looked as scared and uncomfortable as I felt.

Why can’t we find answers when things are moving along fine? Why should it take something as monumental as a health crisis to force you to reevaluate your life.

It suddenly struck me that these test results would determine whether I would return to my usual routine, or if my life would be forever changed.

After two hours of stressful examinations, I received a clean bill of health. There were moments, dark moments, when I truly believed the outcome was going to be very different. As I started getting choked up, the nurse said, “I bet you’ll have a glass of champagne when you get home.” I was very grateful, and I knew how lucky I was. Judging by the long faces of some of the other women there, life was going to be drastically different for them. It was heartbreaking.

Walking out of the building, I vowed not to waste this experience. Afterward, I came up with a few daily practices to keep me on track. I hope you find them useful as well:

  1. Nurture yourself: Tune in, not out. Pay more attention to how you feel, how much sleep you’re getting. In what areas can you make improvements? How can you implement those improvements? Monitor burnout, eliminate long hours at the office, delegate more, and participate in activities that make you happy.
  1. Reimagine your thoughts: Pay attention to negative thoughts and comments, then steer them away. By shifting your outlook, everything can change. Pick up the book A Complaint Free World by Will Bowen. For me, it was a game changer.
  1. Get moving: Staying active is essential for mind, body, and spirit. Commit to walking 30-minutes a day; slice and dice it anyway that works for you. Take time to decompress while listening to good music—it can be energizing and it’s good for your soul.
  1. Laugh: Surround yourself with people that bring out your best. Life is supposed to be enjoyed, not taken too, too seriously. Try a hula-hoop contest with friends. You may look ridiculous, but you’ll have a great time.

Here’s to a healthy and happy life!

a fact-finding mission

opencenterMy reading over the phone with Gina provided me with more detail. That not only was Reiki part of my new path, but also that I had been a healer in a previous life. I know, totally crazy! Over the years I have become more open-minded to the workings of the Universe, and I accepted what Gina told me wholeheartedly.

That night I went online and looked up Reiki schools in Manhattan, and came across an accredited one at the Open Center. Because I was new to this, I felt an accredited program would give me structure. And hopefully I would meet like-minded folks whom I could connect with as I began this journey.

I asked the Universe to send me “obvious” signs that I was on the right path. I was also thinking of booking another spa trip to Arizona. The next morning I ran into a friend of mine at work who said, “I could really use a Reiki treatment,” and then she mentioned the name of the spa in Arizona.  I stood there, speechless. In my life up till then, I’d met three Reiki Masters and each of them spoke about the Universe sending signs. I knew I was on the right path, and away to the spa I went.

The morning of Reiki 1, I woke up with a cold and felt awful. In a way it was a blessing because I had no stress when I walked into class, really the unknown. I then met Joanna, who ran the program, and instantly I knew she was the perfect teacher for me. She was warm and funny, but also quite serious when she needed to be.

During class, Joanna explained that Reiki tends to bring stuff up, so we shouldn’t be surprised if we wound up getting sick after that weekend. I was sick with multiple sinus infections for the next three months.

Change is hard, and for me—as much as I try to embrace it—I find it can be scary at times. For me, and, I think, for anyone. Throughout the weekends of Level 1 followed by Level 2 a few months later, I was uncomfortable and more than a little scared of the unknown. In the past I have quit things too early, but I was determined to follow this through. This was very much out of my comfort zone, this was very different from my life in Corporate America.

I did make friends and did find in the class the sympathetic and open-minded people I’d been hoping to meet. With diligence, good humor, and zeal, over the next few months I achieved my certification in Reiki Levels 1 and 2. I was extremely excited and I couldn’t wait to begin Level 3, which was supposed to be a very different experience and last four months instead of just one weekend for each level.

My journey of becoming Reiki had truly started.